I watched the new Netflix movie To the Bone, which is about a young women with anorexia. Contrary to what some people said about it, I don’t think it glamorizes eating disorders. I think they made her struggle look painful – they show her compulsively doing situps, running up and down the stairs despite being out of breath, and passing out in a train station. I do take issue with the fact that the lead actress, who has a history of anorexia herself, lost weight for the role, as it feeds into the stereotype that everyone with an eating disorder is underweight. However, when she goes to treatment, there are people there with a variety of body sizes, which hopefully helps to combat the idea that one needs to be severely underweight to seek out residential/inpatient treatment.
What I take issue with is the portrayal of the treatment process. I get that the place where is goes for treatment, a residential place run by a psychiatrist played by Keanu Reeves, is supposed to be “nontraditional.” However, I really doubt that any treatment place would employ some of the methods used by this place. For one, meals are completely unsupervised. The patients just sit at the table with a bunch of food, and are allowed to eat as much or as a little as they want. One patient almost exclusively eats peanut butter from a jar too. Although I know that some treatment places ultimately have patients practice intuitive eating or get to a point where they prepare their own food, most places have patients start out with supervised meals and meal plans. They basically make it look like treatment is living in a nice house, going on some field trips, and engaging in a group or two. I worry people who watch the movie will have an unrealistic view of just how hard residential/inpatient treatment is.
Furthermore, towards the end of the movie the main character has a revelation/near death experience, and then is shown going back to the treatment center, more willing than before. It is implied that now she will be compliant and get better. Although I have never had a near death experience, I know many people that have and continue to struggle. It’s not that simple. It is a daily, sometimes hourly, sometimes minute by minute, difficult decision to continue on the path to recovery. I wish they would make a second movie that documents her struggles now that she is going to be cooperative in treatment – because that’s when shit gets hard.
Although I did not personally find it triggering, that doesn’t mean that it is okay for anyone with an eating disorder to watch this movie. I know that others have found it triggering. If you are considering watching it, talk to your therapist or another professional first to make sure it is in your best interest.